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Am I wrong to try and find someone to have a physical relationship with?

I think it is wrong unless you have received some kind of "hall pass" from your wife.

It is also my belief that is is not fair, unless you went into the relationship with that understanding, for one party to say "I don't want this, and because I don't want this, you can't have it with anyone." That is something you would have to work out as a couple, and that means you need to have a frank discussion with your wife about this. If she is unwilling to have this discussion...honestly it may be a sign that there is something wrong in your marriage that needs addressing.

I really do think sexual intimacy is an important part of a healthy relationship. I do not think I could stay in a relationship where I was not having ***sex with my partner. I also do not think going behind your partners back is the way forward.

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On the other hand.

I am not a doctor, but I do not think it is normal for someone to wake up one day and suddenly they are no longer interested in ***sex. I wonder if your wife has experienced some kinda of trauma, mental or physical or both, that is preventing her from enjoying ***sex.

Some questions you should ask your wife: Does she pleasure herself? Is stimulation uncomfortable or painful to her? Does she have trouble becoming aroused? Depending on her answers to these questions, she should probably go to a doctor for this, and I would start with either a primacy care physician or a gynecologist. I know she has already gone to a doctor. Is she reluctant to see a doctor about this? If so, why?

I wonder if she does not see it as a problem and just expects you to be ok with it. I do not think that is fair if so.

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I feel like sum1 has hacked my tech.

I guess it depends what they are doing and how they are doing it. If it is very serious you should probably get the police involved.

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I lost my friend.

I'm sorry to hear that. I've kinda felt the same about a certain friend once. I don't really talk to that person anymore. It got better eventually but at the time it felt very sad and made me quite depressed.

It's not much of advice but the only thing I can offer is that all pain is temporary and if you two aren't able to make it back to being friends, you'll eventually feel better about it. But I wish you luck in patching things up.

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I tried everything I could for poor seize.

Seizish!

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whatever you date, have you ever met the one that made you hate them all?

I guess what I am saying is, realize when someone isn't right, because there are SO many guys or girls who are not right and just say no right away to those and that will keep you open and fresh for when the right ones come along.

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whatever you date, have you ever met the one that made you hate them all?

I have gone through periods where I was disappointed with women but I think the best cure for that is some empathy...everyone is an individual. If someone isn't treating you right, or not making you feel good to be with, dump them early and often, don't get sucked into something that is not good for you.

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Anyone here smoke cigars?

Key thing is smoking a cigar should be relaxing, so don't sweat the details too much especially if you're smoking alone.

One thing though if you are smoking in front of people:

https://hespokestyle.com/hold-cigar-properly/

#2 is actually the "right" way to hold it and how i've seen most people do it. There are some cigar snobs who will look down on you on using #1 and i remember when i first started smoking a guy told me: you don't hold it like you're sucking a ****

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Anyone here smoke cigars?

I think some cigar smokers do inhale but i would never eff with that myself. I would think you'd have to be a heavy smoker in the first place to tolerate that. It probably makes for a more intense experience though. I have accidentally inhaled from time to time and it is not pleasant.

Cigars have much more tabacco than cigs do, no filter, and the tabocco used is often just a much more robust type. And you get much more nicotine per drag as well.


You should only cut the end that you smoke out of (the part that goes in your mouth), which is usually indicated by how the label sits (or by the fact that it's not cut). Some cigars are precut, which was confusing for me the first time i got one like that.

If it is precut and not clear which part is the out end i believe it should be clear by looking at it...i tend to try and get cigars where it is obvious to avoid that problem.

I have heard about not flicking the ash off but eventually, once it gets long enough, it will fall off by itself, so in many situations it's really not practical to let it get too long before manually flicking it yourself.

The technique is to "gently roll the ash off) but that only works if you have an ash tray or something. I just occasionally flick gently when the ash it's clear the ash will fall off cleanly.

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Anyone here smoke cigars?

Another thing to keep in mind is you should not actually inhale the cigar smoke into your lungs. It is not meant to be smoked that way. You're just supposed to draw the smoke into your mouth to taste and blow it out.

Some people draw it back into their throat, just a little, and push the smoke out their nose. I've tried that a few times, it's intense.

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Anyone here smoke cigars?

Honestly, I have probably smoked about 5 cigars this month, quite close together too, and I am starting to get a craving for a cigar (which is not something I have really experienced often). So I am going to take a break from them for at least a week, probably more.

I do like smoking cigars but definitely not worth getting addicted.

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